"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why are we so scared to let go?
It's because we really don't think that we will find anything better despite how untrue that idea really is.
We think that what we experienced in the past is the best possible thing that could have happened to us and that nothing else in the future will come along to replace it.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
If it's someone you had to walk away from, at one point in your life there was someone before them who you had to heal from.
Understand that someone new will come into your life and heal the wounds that you are carrying. They will soothe your soul in ways that the other person could not.
And it will happen again...
And another after that...
Eventually, someone will come into your life who refuses to let you go. They will want to be with you forever and will fight for you when you need to be fought for and support you when you need to be supported.
That will be an incredible day.
So until then, be gentle with yourself and know that the universe has a wonderful way of giving you exactly what you need to grow.
Life gives you exactly what you need vs. what you want.
These lessons can be difficult and they can harbor a lot of pain, but they are exactly what's necessary to help you grow and move forward with your life.
By staying completely open to experiencing all of the different colors of life, you will live in the present moment and continue growing.
That's a happy life. That's one of fulfillment.
Continue trusting your path.
Why are we so scared to let go?
It's because we really don't think that we will find anything better despite how untrue that idea really is.
We think that what we experienced in the past is the best possible thing that could have happened to us and that nothing else in the future will come along to replace it.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
If it's someone you had to walk away from, at one point in your life there was someone before them who you had to heal from.
Understand that someone new will come into your life and heal the wounds that you are carrying. They will soothe your soul in ways that the other person could not.
And it will happen again...
And another after that...
Eventually, someone will come into your life who refuses to let you go. They will want to be with you forever and will fight for you when you need to be fought for and support you when you need to be supported.
That will be an incredible day.
So until then, be gentle with yourself and know that the universe has a wonderful way of giving you exactly what you need to grow.
Life gives you exactly what you need vs. what you want.
These lessons can be difficult and they can harbor a lot of pain, but they are exactly what's necessary to help you grow and move forward with your life.
By staying completely open to experiencing all of the different colors of life, you will live in the present moment and continue growing.
That's a happy life. That's one of fulfillment.
Continue trusting your path.
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